One of my favourite passages from Paul is Ephesians 2:10 – “For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.“
As humans, we were created to serve one another in love, and as followers of Christ we are new creations in Christ, and both commissioned and gifted to serve. However, sometimes our serving can be sinful. The following are 12 ways we can tell:
1. When we’re doing it for purely selfish motives (although we can’t ever be completely unselfish in our motives).
2. When we become irritable or frustrated when our plans are interrupted or changed.
3. When we haven’t left enough of a margin in our schedule to allow for unexpected interruptions (often God is working in these interruptions if we have eyes to see it).
4. When we complain (or boast) about being so busy that our family life suffers.
5. When our family life suffers, even when we don’t complain or boast about it.
6. When our health suffers, from stress or not getting enough sleep because of it.
7. When we take on jobs or projects not because we genuinely want to or feel God leading us to (or our boss tells us to!), but because no one else will do it or we think no one else is as qualified.
8. When we take on jobs or projects but feel resentful about it or like a martyr doing it.
9. When we take on jobs or projects because we think God will be more pleased by us or will love us more if we do.
10. When we take on jobs or projects because we want to impress or please people.
11. When we’ve bought into the lie that we need to be always doing or producing (or consuming!) to be considered valuable or worthy of love or acceptance.
12. Finally, when we’re doing it in our own strength instead of in God’s strength. “My people have committed two sins: They have forsaken me, the spring of living water, and have dug their own cisterns, broken cisterns that cannot hold water” (Jer. 2:13).
Sometimes we make ourselves overly busy because we don’t want to face deeper issues in our lives, and busyness, like other forms of distraction, postpone us from having to deal with them. Or sometimes it’s because we don’t want face God Himself – being alone with Him with nothing else to get in the way.
But God never intended that we extend ourselves so much that it becomes detrimental to our emotional, spiritual, or physical health. And He has gifted us for some jobs, but not all of them.
Are you over-committed at church or at work or in the community? You might actually be displeasing God, and it’s worth not taking this consideration too lightly. Spend some time alone and in silence, and before God see if any of reasons describe you.
Did I miss any reasons? What would you say are the reasons when serving is pleasing to God?